204+ Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend

Questions to ask your girlfriend will deepen your connection, strengthen your relationship and help you bond.

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Romantic Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend

When was your first kiss?

If you could change one thing about me and the way I treat you, what would you change?

How do you want to be proposed to?

What are you most attracted to about me?

What song do you wish was written about you?

What is your favorite activity to do with me?

What kind of wedding do you want?

What would you change about me if you could?

Do you believe in soul mates?

Do you think I have an irrational fear of something?

Do you remember the first time we met?

Which song comes to your mind and heart, while you think of me?

When did you fall in love with me?

What’s the most romantic place you have been to?

Do I make your heart race?

What’s the most romantic film you have ever seen?

What was the first thing you thought when you saw me?

When did you want to kiss me?

What did you feel after our first kiss?

Where would you like to go for a date with me?

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Who was your first crush?

How do you know when you’re in love?

Are relationships meant to last forever?

What foreign country would you love to live in?

What is your favorite way to relax?

What is a better gift: A couples’ spa day, a weekend getaway, or diamond jewelry?

Do you like schedules or do you prefer to go with the flow?

If money was not a factor, where would you live?

If you could sing one song perfectly, what song would you choose?

What do you like the most about technology? What do you like the least about technology?

What road trip would you love to take?

What is your favorite flower?

Would you rather live in a place with an ocean view or a city skyline view?

What skill have you worked the hardest to master?

Which is scarier: giving a speech to 1,000 people or skydiving?

If you won the lottery, would you still work?

Have you ever boycotted or protested anything?

What was the best job you ever had?

What is the most important thing you learned from your parents?

Which do you crave the most: stability or adventure?

Would you rather be unique or understood?

Have you ever meditated?

What do you want your life to be like in 5 years?

What scares you most about our relationship?

What is the best way for me to tell you that I am out of balance?

How are you most comfortable letting me know that you are out of balance?

What do you do to take care of yourself?

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How much space/time do you need for yourself?

How can I support you in taking care of yourself?

When you are out of balance what do you need from me?

What does your perfect day look like?

How can I be more supportive of you in day-to-day life?

What do you look for in a relationship?

Do you think we could parent well together if we had children?

Who do you want our children to take after?

Questions To Ask Girlfriend

Do you think you are misunderstood?

What are you most ashamed of?

What did you learn from your last relationship?

What was the hardest thing that you ever had to get through as a kid?

Have you ever felt like giving up in the past?

What is an innocent mistake you made that had dramatic consequences?

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Has anyone ever broken your trust beyond repair?

Looking back on your life, what have you done that has given you the most satisfaction?

Is there someone you haven’t spoken to in a long time that you miss?

How do you measure success?

When do you feel most free?

When do you feel most joyful?

When do you feel most fulfilled?

What aspects of your work make you feel these ways?

What aspects of spending time with others make you feel these ways?

If our relationship ended, what is the one thing about it you would miss the most?

What do you think was your most vulnerable moment in our relationship?

What is the most courageous thing you have ever done?

What is your biggest passion?

What in this relationship has been hard for you to deal with?

What in past relationships has been hard to deal with?

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What has made you feel not free?

How have you felt fulfilled in our relationship?

When have you been most joyful in our relationship?

What would you enjoy doing more of together?

In the past week, what are you most grateful for in this relationship?

What worries you?

What ticks you off?

Are your needs being met?

What scares you the most?

What’s your favorite date that we’ve been on?

Do you find it hard to trust people?

Is there ever a good excuse to tell a lie?

What is one thing you want to accomplish together by this time next year?

What is something you failed badly at?

Would your younger self be proud of what you’ve achieved so far?

What was an aspiration you had when you were younger that you no longer want to achieve?

What do you do when heartbroken?

What do you think is your biggest strength in this relationship?

What is one thing about your parents’ relationship that you seek to emulate?

Have you ever loved someone who didn’t love you back?

What’s the most important thing you learned from your parents?

When was the first time you looked at me and realized that you were in love with me?

What’s your favorite song and movie?

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What is your favorite gift to get?

Do you like having a schedule or do you prefer to go with the flow?

Do you prefer the beach, mountains or countryside?

When do you feel the freest?

Where would you like to take a road trip to?

What skills have you worked hard to master?

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What’s your favorite cuisine or food?

What is your dream job?

Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

What do you think are my best qualities?

What’s something you’d like to do with me that we haven’t done yet?

What’s the first thing that came to your mind the first time you saw me?

What kind of wedding would you want?

Which song makes you think of me?

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Would you want to meet my parents?

How do you like to celebrate anniversaries?

What kind of lingerie do you like?

What made you fall for me?

What’s your favorite love language? (touch, gifts, words, etc.)

How would you want to raise our children?

What is your idea of a romantic honeymoon?

How would you describe our relationship?

What is the most romantic memory of us you have?

Were you ever swept off your feet by a romantic gesture?

What is it I have to do to keep you in my life forever?

What can I do to make your life better?

How would you describe our perfect night together?

What is the craziest thing you’ve ever done for love?

What’s your favorite thing that we do together?

If we could run away right now, where would you want to go?

What makes you feel safe and protected when we’re together?

What are the things that remind you of me?

How can I be a better man for you?

Do you think it’s possible to be too in love with someone?

Do you feel loved, understood and appreciated in our relationship?

What are your biggest pet peeves?

If our relationship ended, what would you miss the most?

Do you want to have kids?

How close are you to your family?

How long was your longest relationship?

Are you friends with your exes?

Have you ever been cheated on or have you ever cheated on a partner?

What is one thing you think makes our relationship unique from everyone else’s?

How do you want to be proposed to? In a crowded city square with a backing band or privately on a scenic mountaintop?

What kind of wedding do you want? A beach ceremony with 50 of your closest friends, or a lavish blowout with 300 people and a live band?

Where should our next trip be?

What do you imagine our next house looks like?

Where do you really want to live?

What has excited you recently?

What does your ideal day look like?

What does your ideal life look like?

What hobby do you wish you could pursue?

What do you imagine our life together looks like in the future?

What would you do for a year if you were free to do whatever you wanted?

What is the hottest thing a lover can wear?

What is your ideal date: horseback riding followed by a dinner prepared by your date, or dinner out at a romantic restaurant, followed by club hopping?

Best Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend

Have you ever had an unrequited love?

What’s your best memory of us together?

What is something I did that made you laugh really hard?

Do you think we are soul mates?

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Where would you like to go on a date with me?

What is the best thing you like about me?

When you were a kid, what did you imagine your life would be like as an adult?

What is the best way to wake up?

What is your favorite playground game?

Have you ever received a random act of kindness?

What is your favorite children’s book?

Which do you like better: giving or receiving gifts?

Which is more important to you: to be happy or successful?

What’s on your bucket list?

Who out of my friends do you like the most (and why)?

If I could only make you one meal for the rest of your life, what would it be?

What do you cherish most about your childhood?

Would you rather have stability or adventure?

What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever gotten?

Do you believe in karma, fate, destiny or serendipity?

What’s something you’ve never told anyone else?

When was the last time you cried and why?

Would you help me bury a body or turn me in?

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What is the best date we have ever had?

How do you think your friends see you?

Do you think you’re decisive or indecisive?

What is the best quality you like in people?

What do you think is your most underappreciated quality?

What’s the cutest thing anyone has ever done for you?

Have you ever been in a fight?

What easily turns you on?

How do you cope with people who disagree with you?

Is it better to be loved, admired, or respected?

What movie can you quote the most lines from?

What was your favorite toy as a kid?

Who was the best teacher you ever had?

What is the best compliment you have ever received?

What sounds or smells bring you comfort?

Has anyone ever thrown you a surprise party?

What is your idea of the perfect birthday?

Do you trust me with your whole heart?

What do you look forward to the most when you think about getting old?

What is our funniest memory together?

Do you like it when I wear cologne?

Would you ever quit your job or move to a new city for your partner?

How many times have you been in love?

Who usually says ‘I love you’ first in your relationships?

What TV couple is the epitome of #RelationshipGoals?

What would be the perfect Valentine’s Day?