132+ Deep Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend

Communication can enhance the bond towards a strong foundation. Deep questions to ask your girlfriend will help you bond and strengthen your relationship.

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Deep Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend Over Text

What’s the biggest problem in the world? How could we fix it?

What is one thing that I do that makes you happy?

Do you have any regrets in life?

If you could see into the future one time, what would you want to see?

What is your biggest fear?

What’s your deepest secret?

Who comforts you the most?

What is one thing that you would like to change about our relationship – and why?

What scares you most about our relationship?

What do you look for in a relationship?

Do you think we could parent well together if we had children?

How do you want people to remember you?

Do you believe in extraterrestrial life?

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Do you think long distance can work? How far is too far?

How did you know that you wanted to be with me?

What would you give up to pursue your dreams?

If you could change one thing in history, what would it be?

Do you believe in marriage? Why or why not?

What’s your relationship like with your mom?

Who do you want our children to take after?

Do you think you are misunderstood?

What are you most ashamed of?

What did you learn from your last relationship?

What’s your relationship like with your dad?

Do you want to have kids? Why or why not? How many?

What excites you most?

What’s a good day for you?

What is your most embarrassing moment?

Who brings you the most joy in your life?

Where would you want to start your family?

How do you want our relationship to be different than your parents’ relationship? How do you want it to be similar?

What book changed your life?

Who are the biggest influences on who you are?

What’s your defining moment?

What keeps you up at night?

What is the biggest lesson you have learned from a past relationship?

When was your first time?

What’s the thing you most want to tell me?

What is something that you’ve never told anyone?

Send me your favorite selfie on your phone.

What songs do you want me to listen to?

Serious Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend

What memory has left the biggest impact on who you are?

How do you want people to remember you?

Are you happy?

What’s the best way for you to learn new things?

Could you be in a long distance relationship?

If you had one wish, what would it be?

What’s your passion?

What’s the sweetest thing anyone has ever done for you?

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What is the best gift you’ve ever received?

What were your first impressions of me when we initially met?

What do you want your retirement years to look like?

Where’s your hometown?

Do you have siblings?

Where are the places you want to live/ see?

Where’s the coolest place you’ve been?

A genie gives you a wish. What do you wish for?

What was the hardest thing that you ever had to get through as a kid?

Have you ever felt like giving up in the past?

What is an innocent mistake you made that had dramatic consequences?

Has anyone ever broken your trust beyond repair?

Do you prefer a night out or a night in?

What were you into as a kid?

What’s on your bucket list?

What’s your favorite movie?

What was your favorite movie as a kid?

What’s your favorite song?

Who are your favorite artists?

What’s your favorite TV show?

Looking back on your life, what have you done that has given you the most satisfaction?

Is there someone you haven’t spoken to in a long time that you miss?

How do you measure success?

If our relationship ended, what is the one thing about it you would miss the most?

What do you think was your most vulnerable moment in our relationship?

What is the most courageous thing you have ever done?

Powerful Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend

What’s a story you’ve always wanted to tell, but never got a chance to?

What’s one thing your friends think is fun that you don’t?

Do you find you pronounce any words differently than other people?

What’s a song you like from a genre or band you don’t like?

If you could go back and change one thing in your life, what would it be?

What is your biggest regret?

What is your biggest passion?

Do you find it hard to trust people?

Is there ever a good excuse to tell a lie?

What is one thing you want to accomplish together by this time next year?

What is something you failed badly at?

Would your younger self be proud of what you’ve achieved so far?

What was an aspiration you had when you were younger that you no longer want to achieve?

Tell me about your high school experience. Were you popular? A nerd? Did you have friends, or were you lonely?

If you are having a hard day, how will you let me know, and how would you like me to respond?

When was a time that you felt lonely? What was that like for you?

What do you do when heartbroken?

What do you think is your biggest strength in this relationship?

What is one thing about your parents’ relationship that you seek to emulate?

Have you ever loved someone who didn’t love you back?

Are relationships meant to last forever?

What is one thing you think makes our relationship unique from everyone else’s?

Hard Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend

What’s something you like to do that’s underrated?

Has anything weird happened to you lately?

Are you known for anything special in your hometown/friend group?

What did you not realize about yourself until somebody else told you about it?

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What’s your favorite book or movie?

Would you rather swim with sharks or jellyfish?

Have you ever gotten detention in school?

What’s your favorite animal and why?

If you could change one thing about me and the way I treat you, what would you change?

What are you most attracted to about me?

What is your favorite activity to do with me?

What would you change about me if you could?

Do you think I have an irrational fear of something?

Do I ever make you unhappy?

If a genie granted us three wishes, what would they be?

Have you ever cried in public before?

Have you ever gone skiing or snowboarding?

Have you ever done a backflip or frontflip?

What are some expectations you have of marriage?

What is your most embarrassing memory?

When was the first time you looked and me and realized that you were in love with me?

Was my first impression on you a good one or a bad one?

What is one thing I do for you that you are truly grateful for?

What is one thing about me that surprised you?

What do you admire most about me?

Tell me about a time when you were severely disappointed. What happened? How did you recover from that?

What is one thing that you would change about me if you could – and why?

Have you ever driven a car off the road?

Have you ever been in a fight?

Where is your favorite place to be with me?

Do you want to change anything in me?

How did you know you wanted to be in a relationship with me?

Do you want to spend the rest of your life with me?

What is the nicest thing I have ever said to you?