Each paragraph below is an original sample you can send or adapt. Replace bracketed details with your own, and use the nickname you’d normally say aloud. Choose a message that reflects your relationship, including any plans or promises it makes.
Short and Sweet Paragraphs
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Quick note: I like you a lot. The steady, I’d-pick-you-again kind of a lot. Nothing special happened to make me say it today. I just wanted you to know.
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You make ordinary days better, and I’ve noticed. Long drives, slow checkout lines, waiting for a table: it’s all more fun with you there. Thank you for being my favorite person to do nothing with.
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I was going to send a heart emoji and leave it there, but I wanted to use actual words. I love being your person. It still makes me smile to say that, even if we’ve already talked three times today.
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I like getting to know you in installments. There’s always another story I haven’t heard or an opinion I didn’t know you had. Being close to you keeps getting more interesting.
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Every time your name pops up on my phone, I smile before I’ve read a word. I thought you should know you have that effect. It’s very inconvenient in meetings.
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I love how curious you are. A walk with you can turn into a conversation about a building, a bird, or something neither of us knows anything about. You make paying attention fun.
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I had a whole story ready to tell you, and then you hugged me and I forgot how it started. This keeps happening. I’m beginning to think the story can wait.
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You’re the first person I want to tell when something good happens and the first person I want to tell when something ridiculous happens. Today it was both. Call me when you’re free.
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Thank you for being so easy to talk to. I can start a sentence without knowing exactly where it’s going, and you’ll hear me out. I love being that comfortable with you.
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I love watching your face change when you start talking about something you’re excited about. Please keep telling me all the details. I might not know much about the subject yet, but I care about what makes you happy.
Good Morning Paragraphs
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Good morning, love. I hope this gives you a reason to smile before the emails and errands get their turn. Somewhere in the middle of your morning, picture me giving you a kiss and asking how you slept.
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Morning! I woke up thinking about how you start laughing at your own jokes before you get to the punch line. It makes the whole thing funnier. I’m still smiling about yesterday’s attempt.
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Morning, love. I know today’s your big [presentation], and I wanted to get a little encouragement in before it starts. I’ve seen the work you’ve put into this. I’ll be cheering for you from here.
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Morning, bae. I’m voting for a slow start today: a good breakfast, no rush, and some time together. If you’re free, I’d love to join your very ambitious plan to relax.
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Good morning to the person who gives me something to look forward to on a Monday. I’m already thinking about [our dinner on Thursday]. I like having a piece of the week that’s ours.
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Hi, you. I hope something unexpectedly nice happens today, even if it’s only finding the thing you thought you’d lost. Save me a story from your day. I like hearing about the parts I wasn’t there for.
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Good morning! Today’s forecast: I’ll probably miss you by lunch. Dinner together would improve the outlook considerably. Let me know if you’re free, and I’ll help make a plan.
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Good morning, blanket thief. I was going to complain, but then you gave me that sleepy smile and ruined my argument. I still want my half of the blanket back tonight.
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Morning, babe. I hope today brings green lights, short lines, and people who answer emails on time. If it doesn’t, I’ll be here later with a sympathetic ear and some dinner suggestions.
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Good morning, love. Before we both get pulled into our packed schedules, I wanted a minute with you. I’m glad we make time for these little hellos, even on the busiest days.
Thinking-of-You Paragraphs for the Middle of the Day
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A song came on in the store today, and I thought of you so fast I almost said your name out loud in the cereal aisle. That’s where we are now. Hope your afternoon’s going well.
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Random thought: I really like the way you say my name. You could be asking me to pass a pen, and I’d still enjoy hearing it. Thought you deserved to know.
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I saw a dog at the park who wanted to greet absolutely everyone. You would’ve loved it, and I kept wishing you were there to meet him. Next time, I’m inviting you along.
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I’m trying to concentrate, but that thing you said last night keeps making me laugh. My very serious face isn’t holding up. You’re distracting even when you’re nowhere near me.
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I passed [the place we had our first date] today and caught myself smiling. It looked completely ordinary from the outside. Funny how a place can mean something entirely different after one evening with the right person.
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I caught myself saying “we” while telling someone about the weekend. It made me smile how naturally you fit into my stories now. I like this part of being us.
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I used one of your expressions today and immediately heard it in your voice. Apparently, you’re becoming part of my vocabulary. I’ll give you credit if anyone compliments my excellent choice of words.
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I love that we can pick up a conversation in the middle, hours after it started. No recap, no explanation—just one more ridiculous observation. I like knowing you’ll understand exactly what I mean.
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I have an idea for the weekend: we each pick one thing we’d like to do, then leave the rest open. I want some time with you that doesn’t feel scheduled down to the minute. What would your pick be?
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I’m typing this because sometimes I enjoy what we have so much that I forget to say it out loud. I’m happy with you. The everyday, comfortable, looking-forward-to-coming-over kind of happy.
Funny Paragraphs for Bae
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I have officially named you my favorite person. The decision followed a careful review of everyone who laughs at my bad jokes, and you won by a considerable margin. The committee would like to congratulate you.
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I tried writing you a love poem, but every rhyme for your name made it worse. So here’s the prose version: I adore you, and I’m very relieved this doesn’t have to rhyme.
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Checking in to confirm you’re still cute. I checked this morning, and remembering your smile just now produced the same result. I suspect this finding will hold up over time.
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I practiced a cool, mysterious greeting for the next time I see you. Unfortunately, my face keeps doing that enormous grin. Please act surprised when the mysterious part falls through.
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I sat down to write you a beautiful paragraph about how much I love you, then got distracted thinking about lunch. In my defense, I immediately wondered what you’d want to eat. Even my distractions include you.
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Thank you for attending my car concerts with such enthusiasm. You know the lyrics are approximate and the high notes are a risk, yet you keep coming back. Next time, we’re doing a duet.
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I’ve been working on a nickname for you, and the strongest candidate is Fry Thief. Your excellent smile and suspiciously empty side of the plate support my case. Fortunately, I’m very fond of the suspect.
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I think we make an excellent team. You remember where we parked; I provide enthusiastic commentary on the walk back. Please don’t ask me to reverse those roles.
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The plan was a movie. An hour later, we’d watched seven trailers and discussed three actors whose names neither of us could remember. Excellent company, questionable film festival. I’d happily attend again.
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My favorite photo of us is the blurry one where we’re both laughing. It provides almost no evidence of what we look like, but excellent evidence that we were having a good time. I’m keeping it.
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I saved you the good chips before I started eating. Now I’m sitting here next to them, demonstrating an impressive amount of restraint. Please understand how fond I am of you.
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Reasons I like you, in no particular order: your laugh, your good questions, and the way you get excited about a really good sandwich. There’s more, but this is already a strong argument for having lunch together.
Paragraphs for the Early Days
For a newer relationship, keep the affection in the present rather than promising a whole future.
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I had such a good time with you tonight. I’ve been grinning at nothing since I got home, which is entirely your fault. I’d love to see you again soon.
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I’ve been looking forward to seeing you all week. I left the rest of the evening open so we won’t have to rush through our goodbyes this time. I’m excited to spend some proper time together.
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Your sense of humor keeps catching me off guard. I’ll think you’re being completely serious, then realize what you said and start laughing a second too late. I’m enjoying learning how your mind works.
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I keep thinking about our conversation about [topic]. I didn’t expect to talk for three hours, and I definitely didn’t expect to want more when it ended. Thank you for such a good evening.
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Confession: I changed my outfit three times before our date. I was a little nervous and apparently thought a different shirt could solve that. Then I saw you, and I stopped thinking about the shirt altogether.
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I appreciate how clear you are when you’d like to see me. It makes getting to know you feel refreshingly straightforward. I get to spend my time looking forward to our plans instead of trying to guess them.
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I like you, and I wanted to say that without hiding it inside a joke. I’m enjoying this enough to be a little nervous about saying so. Still, I’m glad you know now.
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I like that we both have full lives and still want to make room for each other. Hearing about your week has become something I look forward to. I’m enjoying finding out how our different worlds fit together.
When Bae Is Having a Hard Day
A useful offer can say more than a pep talk. Choose one you can follow through on, and leave them room to answer later.
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I know today has been rough. I can’t fix it over text, but I can bring dinner later if you’d like company. Take your time getting back to me. I love you, and the offer’s here.
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Your schedule has been packed lately, and I’d like to make this week a little easier. I can handle [the grocery pickup] if that would help. You do a lot, and I’d be glad to take a turn.
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That meeting sounded frustrating. I’ve seen how carefully you think things through, even when you don’t get the chance to explain everything. I wanted you to hear from someone who notices what you’re good at.
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You don’t have to turn a frustrating day into a funny story for me. If you want to complain, I’ll listen. If you’d rather talk about anything else, I have several excellent distractions ready.
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I wish I could give you a hug right now. Since I can’t, I’m sending this instead: I love you, I’m thinking about you, and I’m sorry today has asked so much of you.
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If you still have to deal with [that frustrating errand], I’d be happy to come along. I can’t promise to make the line move faster, but I can provide company and some very strong opinions about where we should eat afterward.
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You put so much thought into [your project]. I wanted you to know I notice the work, even before there’s anything finished to show. I’m proud of how much you care about doing it well.
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When you get home, dinner will be handled and your favorite show will be ready. We can talk about your day or skip straight to debating the episode. I’ll follow your lead. I’m glad you’re coming home to me.
Affectionate Paragraphs After a Disagreement
For an ordinary disagreement, affection can accompany an apology or a conversation. Keep responsibility for what happened clear.
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I’m sorry about earlier. I was frustrated, I took it out on you, and that wasn’t fair. Next time, I’ll ask for a minute instead of letting my mood spill into how I speak to you. I love you.
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I love you, even though we apparently live in two different climates while sitting in the same room. I’d like to find a thermostat setting we can both live with. I’m willing to bring an extra blanket to the negotiations.
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I’ve been thinking about what you said, and I understand your point better now. Thank you for explaining it, even when I was being stubborn. I’d like to hear the rest without spending the whole time preparing my reply.
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We haven’t figured this out yet, and I don’t want to rush past what matters to you. I care about you while we’re disagreeing, too. When we’re both ready, I’d like to keep talking and understand each other better.
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I’m sorry I kept interrupting. You were trying to tell me something, and I made that harder. I’d like to start again by letting you finish. Your side deserves my attention, and so do you.
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I’d like to make us some tea and try that conversation again once we’ve both had a breather. We can leave the show for afterward. I love you, and I want to give this more care than I did earlier.
Missing-You Paragraphs
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I miss you in the silliest ways. I keep turning around to tell you something before remembering you’re not here. I’m saving the stories, though my dramatic retelling may improve with every day that passes.
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[Number] more days until I see you. Yes, I’m counting, and I’m very happy about it. My favorite reunion plan so far is having nowhere else to be for a while.
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That ridiculous selfie you sent keeps making me smile. It’s exactly the expression I miss seeing in person. Until we’re together again, please know that your excellent photographic work is getting plenty of appreciation.
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Phone calls are wonderful, but they’re terrible at hugs. I’m looking forward to the moment when we can stop explaining our days and just stand close for a minute. Until then, I’m sending you all my love from here.
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Hi from the other side of the time difference. You’re probably asleep, so I wanted this waiting when you wake up: I miss you, I’m thinking about you, and I hope your morning starts well. We’ll catch up when our clocks cooperate.
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I keep wearing your hoodie as if it’s going to make you appear. It hasn’t worked yet, but it’s comfortable enough that I’m continuing the experiment. Miss you, love.
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I love our calls that end about forty minutes after the first “I should let you go.” Somehow, there’s always one more thing to say. Hearing your voice is worth the extended goodbye.
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I saved [that bookstore] in my notes for our next date. I can already picture us showing each other things and taking far longer than we planned. Missing you comes with a growing list of things I want to do together.
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It’s strange what I miss when you’re away. Today it was your breakfast humming, including the part where you forget the words and invent new ones. The room sounds different without you in it.
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I liked our video-call dinner. Different meals, different tables, and still the pleasure of spending part of the evening together. I’m looking forward to sharing a table again, but I’m glad we made a date out of the distance.
Everyday Thank-You Paragraphs
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Thank you for asking if I want company or some time to myself, then listening to the answer. I appreciate being able to tell you what I need. You make room for both closeness and a little breathing space.
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I noticed you took care of [the errand] without making a big announcement. So I’m making one: thank you. It was lovely to discover that something on my list was already done because you thought of me.
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You remembered [my favorite snack], and it made me ridiculously happy. I like knowing that things I mention stay with you. Thank you for paying attention in such a sweet, specific way.
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Thank you for following my complicated work stories like they’re a show you’re invested in. You ask questions, remember the characters, and somehow keep the plot straight. I love having you in the audience.
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You can get me laughing with one perfectly timed look. Sometimes nobody else even notices, which makes it harder to explain why I’m suddenly laughing. Thank you for that very particular kind of fun.
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You put real thought into our dates, and it shows. I notice when you choose something because you think we’ll both enjoy it. Thank you for making our time together something you look forward to planning.
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I love how you treat the people I care about. You ask questions, remember what matters to them, and help them feel welcome. Watching you get to know [my sister] has made me so happy.
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Thank you for taking my ideas seriously, including the ones I haven’t quite figured out yet. You ask good questions instead of deciding for me. I love having someone who wants to understand what I’m excited about.
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I keep the notes you leave me in [my desk drawer]. Sometimes I find one while looking for something completely unrelated, and it makes me smile all over again. Thank you for giving me words I want to keep.
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Thank you for following through on what you say you’ll do. I notice the calls you remember and the plans you keep. It means a lot to know our time matters to you.
Longer I Love You Paragraphs
Save these for an established relationship, an anniversary card, or a moment when you want to say more.
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I love you, and I’ve been trying to figure out when I first knew. Maybe it was the night you [specific moment]. Maybe it happened gradually, while I was busy enjoying your company. Either way, I’m glad we kept making plans until being together became part of our lives.
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I love knowing you beyond the version you introduce to people. I get the sleepy conversations, the unfinished ideas, and the enthusiastic opinions about things you claim you don’t care about. Being close enough to know those parts of you means so much to me.
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You make room for the things that matter to me, even when they aren’t your favorites. I see it when you [specific gesture]. I want to keep doing that for you, too: making a life with room for both of us. I love you, and I love learning what that looks like in practice.
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I still get excited when we’re dressed up and going somewhere special. But I also love the moment afterward, when we’re home and telling each other our favorite parts. Getting to share the whole night with you, from anticipation to the recap, is what I look forward to.
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Happy anniversary, babe. [Number] years together, and I still hear stories from you that I’ve never heard before. I love our history, and I love that we’re still adding to it. Here’s to all the things we haven’t tried yet.
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When I picture the years ahead, I hope we keep being curious about each other. I want to know what you’re thinking, what you’ve changed your mind about, and what you’d like to try next. I love you now, and I’m excited to keep finding out who we’ll become together.
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One thing I love about us is that we can enjoy different things without needing to turn them all into shared hobbies. I like hearing about what you’ve been doing, then telling you about my own day. Coming back together with something new to share is one of my favorite parts of our life.
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I love you, and I want that to show in how I treat you: in the plans I make with you, the questions I ask, and the attention I give your answers. You matter to me. I want my everyday actions to say so as clearly as this paragraph does.
Goodnight Paragraphs
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Goodnight, love. That conversation we almost postponed turned out to be my favorite part of today. I’m glad we made time for each other. Sleep well, and thank you for staying a little longer.
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Sleep well, bae. If I turn up in your dreams, I hope we’re somewhere lovely and neither of us has to find parking. That seems like a fair request from the imagination.
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Goodnight, you. I’m going to fall asleep thinking about your laugh, which sounds much nicer than replaying my to-do list. Thanks for giving me something sweet to end the day with.
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Goodnight, love. We can pick up today’s unfinished conversation another time. For now, I’m sending you a kiss and wishing you a comfortable pillow, a cool room, and an uninterrupted night.
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Before you fall asleep, I wanted to say I loved holding your hand today. It was such a brief moment, but it stayed with me. Sending you one last kiss from here.
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I’m sending you a goodnight message from the next room because I saw something you’d find funny. Then I remembered I could just come tell you. Being able to do that still makes me happy. I’ll be there in a minute.
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I like hearing your voice get sleepy when we say goodnight. The conversation slows down, the sentences get shorter, and somehow we’re still finding things to say. Sleep well, love. I enjoyed every minute.
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Last text of the night, I promise. I love you, I’m glad we got to talk, and I’m already looking forward to tomorrow. This time I’m really putting the phone down. Goodnight for real.







